Uzwela: Ukufundisa izingane ukuzazisa abanye

Uzwela lungenye yalezo zimfanelo eziyinqaba - okuthile cishe wonke umuntu ufuna, kepha bambalwa abaziyo ukuthi bayinikela kanjani ngokweqiniso noma bawumukele kanjani. Emhlabeni lapho kugcizelelwa khona ukuze ukuzanelisa kokuzijabulisa, kutholakala ngesikhashana nje kodwa okufunwa kakhulu. Lesi yisizathu esithe xaxa sokufundisa isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nozwela kulabo abaseduze kwabo.

Kuyini uzwela? Abantu abaningi badida ukuzwelana nozwela, kepha bayizindinganiso ezimbili ezihlukile. Uzwela akulona nje amandla okuqonda imizwa yomuntu; Izigebengu zivame ukusizakala ngabantu ngokubona ukuqonda imizwa yabo futhi kamuva bathembela. Uzwela lungaphezu kwalokho. Hhayi kuphela ukuthi yikhono lokubona ukuthi umuntu uzizwa kanjani, kodwa futhi uyakwazi futhi uyayihlonipha imizwa yomunye umuntu. Kusho ukuphatha abanye ngomusa, isithunzi nokuqonda.

Izingane zidinga ukubona abantu abadala bakhombise uzwela - lapho ezinye izingane zinesiphiwo izinhliziyo ezinomusa ngokwemvelo, ezimweni eziningi izingane zidinga ukubona uzwela oluhlelwe ngabantu abadala abaseduze kwabo. Kuqala ngendlela abazali abahlobana ngayo nezingane zabo. Abazali ababonisa intshisekelo ezintweni ezibalulekile ezinganeni zabo futhi baphendule emizweni ngendlela evumayo nebakhathalelayo bafundisa amakhono okuzwela.

Hlangana nezidingo ezingokomzwelo --- lapho izingane zinezidingo zabo ezingokomzwelo zahlangana khona, kwenzeka izinto ezimbili. Bafunda ukuthi bangahlangabezana kanjani nezidingo ezingokomzwelo zabanye futhi bagxilile kulokho abakutholayo, okusho ukuthi bavikelekile ngokwanele ukuba banikeze abanye lapho kuvela khona kuqala. Ijegi engenalutho ayikwazi ukugcwalisa inkomishi.

Khuluma nezingane ngezidingo ezingokomzwelo --- abantu abadala abaningi bakuthola kunzima ukukhuluma ngezidingo ezingokomzwelo noma yini ehlobene nemizwelo. Ngenxa yalokho, bachitha izimpilo zabo bajikisa ngokulandela isihloko semizwa. Lawa ngabantu abangafuni ukuthi bayiphatha kanjani imizwa yabanye futhi bangakhululeki nganoma yisiphi isimo esidinga ukuphendula okungokomzwelo. Kwesinye isikhathi bayasaba imizwa yabo ngoba abakaze bafunde ukuthi babhekana kanjani nezidingo ezingokomzwelo.

Umbono omuhle ukukhuluma nezingane ngemizwelo nokuthi abanye abantu babathola kanjani. Nikeza amagama abo obuhlungu (ngokwesibonelo, umhawu, ulaka nothando) futhi abafundise ukuthi lokhu kuyinto evamile. Xoxa nabo ngokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani imizwa ngendlela enhle futhi bakhombe izimo lapho abanye abantu behlangabezana khona nemizwa ethile. Bafundise ngokuhlonipha imizwa yabanye futhi ubakhombise ukuthi bangenza kanjani esimweni lapho impendulo idingeka khona.

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2018.06.27

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